How Shy Men Act Around Women They Like By Timothy Arends

Want a crash course in how shy men act around someone they like? Put yourself in their shoes. Think of a time that you felt shy yourself. How did it feel? How did you react?

Shy people often have trouble making eye contact. They may tend to look down at their feet more than extroverts. Perhaps they get tongue-tied and don't know what to say. This is just how shy men act around women they like sometimes.

Another problem with shyness is that shy people are often misinterpreted as being aloof or unfriendly. A guy may become even more shy if he is turned down repeatedly by someone he likes. Remember the old saying, "Once burned, twice shy."

Worse, shy people, because of their unassertive manner, are often treated badly. People often feel at liberty to be rude to a shy person and say things that they wouldn't say to the extrovert. Studying a good course on shyness can help you understand how shy men act around women they like.

It's true that the symptoms of shyness can be hard to distinguish from sheer unfriendliness, but the best advice is not to worry about it. Try to make conversation with someone you think may be shy.

Remember that you may have to do more of the talking with someone who is shy. If you have a bit of shyness yourself, it will be harder to talk to someone who is quieter than usual.

Ask questions of the shy guy to draw him out. Try to overcome any shyness you may feel yourself, and remember that you will have to put forth more effort to talk to the shy person. If you have too much trouble talking to the shy person, perhaps you need a little assistance in overcoming shyness yourself.

After you have had a friendly conversation with the shy person, repeat the process the next chance you get. You may find the shy guy opening up more and more, and even seeking you out for conversation as well. You have made the first step towards friendship and maybe something more.

By Timothy Arends

How to Tell If She Likes You - 5 Signs She Likes You By Sun Yung

Women are often a mystery. What is the most complex creation on earth by God? The most common answer one will get among guys is 'GIRLS'.

During the days at school and college, when guys and girls have a crush on each other, a guy is often lost wondering "How to know if a girl likes you?" He is absolutely puzzled as to whether or not he should approach her. He fails to decide if he should express his feelings or not.

If you are one of those, then things are made much easier for you. Here are 5 easy tips on "how to know if a girl likes you"

· Pay attention to her conversation with her friends -

This is one of the easiest ways on how to know if a girl likes you. If the girl likes you, she will mention your name very often among her friends. She will keep talking about you to them. She will give your examples. Girls love to talk about guys they like.

· Girls will share their personal feelings and talks -

Girls will share a lot of personal stuff about others or themselves without you even asking about them. This is a way of showing that she trusts you and has confidence in you and so she likes you.

· She messages you or calls you often -

A girl who likes you will find a hundred reasons to speak to you. If she is happy, she will immediately call or text you to share the joy with you. If she is sad, she will call you up as she believes that hearing your voice will make her feel good. She will message you 'good night' before she goes to bed.

· Keep a close watch on her body language when you are with her in a gathering -

When you are in a big gathering, she will look at you when you are not looking at her and when you look at her; she will take her eyes off you. When you talk, she will show all interest in listening to what you say. For everything she does, she will ask your opinion as it means a lot to her.

· She would love to spend time with you -

The last tip on how to know if a girl likes you is that she will not miss any opportunity to spend time with you. She will keep telling what she is doing and look for a reason for being together. She will never put down your offer to go for a movie or coffee even if is just the two of you going. At the same time, if you call her for a movie or coffee with more female friends of yours she will put down the offer telling she is occupied.

These are some of the tips on how to know if a girl likes you. These tips will answer all your questions and put a standstill to many of your doubts.

Finally, if you want to be the kind of guy that actually has so many girls interested in you then you're going to need a complete overhall in your thinking, behavior, and perspective.

Can it be done? Yes, what you need to do is to learn the skills on how to meet, attract, and date the kinds of women that you have always wanted -and you don't need to be rich or handsome to do it!

By Sun Yung

He Will Not Be Able To Resist You - Get Him Calling You By Nicole Gayle

Men LOVE bold. They love sassy. They love a woman who can get inside their mind and leave them wanting her. And If You Want to Get inside a man's mind and have him think of you as the kind of woman that he just cannot live without, you need to respond in ways that will make him burn for you.

In order to make a man drip with anticipation for you, you have to understand how men respond to attraction. For men, attraction is not a conscious choice and it is triggered by certain behaviors, not just the physical.

In fact, body language which includes voice tonation has MORE to do with building a man's attraction for you than ANYTHING else ever could.

If you think about what separates the women who have ALL of the man versus the ones who does not, you will see a HUGE difference when it comes to how they relate to men.

How you respond around a man matters so much that men confess that they would dump a hot looking girl and go for a woman who can trigger an intense desire in them. There are certain marked characteristics that separates these sirens no matter what race they are from. Here are a few...

1. These types of women know how to play with men. They have men literally hanging off of their words because they have a sharp mind and a quick wit about them. They KNOW what to say. They know how to turn up the verbal play so that a man hounds them down to get into conversations with them. Men have to be VERY careful around these women and watch their game.

2. These types of women know what to do to MAKE men CALL them instead of wondering why a man hasn't called. They understand how to increase a man's desire to WANT to talk to them on the phone.

By Nicole Gayle

HOME::Relationships/Commitment X How to Make a Guy Commit - What You Need to Do to Win His Heart By Tina L. Jones

So do you really think that you know what it takes to make a guy commit to you? Are you tired of short-lived relationships that never turn into the real deal? Are you letting intimidation stop you from going after the relationship you want with the guy you love? Basically, every woman will face a point in her life in which she can answer yes to those questions. Luckily, you don't have to force someone into doing something against their will in order to make a guy commit to you. Read on to learn how to help him naturally come around.

Be assertive

You can learn to be assertive without coming off as overly aggressive. The difference is that an assertive woman knows how to give her guy that little push towards what he is already thinking, while an aggressive woman might push him too far too fast. Guys aren't as gung-ho on settling down with that special someone as women are. It is not that men don't want security or that all guys hate the idea of monogamy at all. It is just that society expects them to want to play the field for longer.

If you let him know that you will be there for him no matter what, he will begin to see you as someone that he'd like having around long term. So instead of worrying about pressuring him into putting a ring on your finger, focus your energy on getting to know his personality. Be in touch with the people and the things that he loves. This is a great way to be assertive and make a guy commit.

Be positive

Don't sit around waiting for him to call you every night and then blow up his phone when he doesn't call you. You cannot criticize and complain someone into wanting to be with you. The more you whine about it, the less he will want to spend time with you.

Instead, be positive when you are talking to him or spending time with him. Instead of associating you with nagging, he will associate you with the happy feelings that he has when you are around. Do fun things together that involve both of your interests. You will make him commit to you without even feeling as if you are trying.

By Tina L. Jones

3 Reasons Men Won't Settle Down With Women By Pila Fatukala

ne of the many reasons women get mad at men is when men won't settle down with the women. There are men out there who always insist they are not made to be in a monogamous relationship and feel that they are destined to roam free until they are ready, not when women are ready. Often times this is really difficult for women to understand.

1. Not Enough Experimentation
Many men will not settle down because they feel too young to do so. They feel they have not experienced everything they need to experience in life. Some of these experiences could be unmentioned sexual adventures and desires. Other experiences may be traveling the world. Men don't want to have the feeling that they missed out on opportunities because they settled down too early.

2. Feeling Insecurities About Themselves
Men may have little insecurities about themselves preventing them from fully committing to women. They want to be able to achieve their goals and aspirations and see these things as must dos before they settle down. They want to be accomplished and successful and see settling down as an obstacle to achieving success in their lives. These men probably like women but want to have a firm foundation first before setting anything in stone.

3. Just Not Interested
The last reason men won't settle down is simply because they're not interested. The connection which was there was lost or he has gotten tired of the situation. His mom may not like the woman or his friends are constantly on his case that the girlfriend is not the right one for him. The woman might not fit the mold of the person he thought he would end up with. Yet, another possibility is that he changed and the woman stayed the same. Whatever the reason may be, once the decision is made that the woman is not the one, it's over.

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By Pila Fatukala

The Role of Responsibility and Communication in a Relationship By Mikel Jackson

Relationships should be enjoyed not endured; many lovers desire happiness in their relationship but irresponsibility and lack of discipline has shifted their focus from their primary goals. To achieve a successful relationship you need to possess certain knowledge and understanding about your spouse.

THE ROLE OF RESPONSIBILITY

A relationship is meant for 2 people with common interest and understanding, the interest of your spouse should be your sole priority , what makes him/her happy should be your major concern and in return you will end up with a fulfilling relationship. Responsibility cannot be rule out if you intend to maintain a happy relationship. It involves recognizing who you are responsible for. If your relationship is not going the way you want it to then you are responsible for changing it.

THE ROLE OF COMMUNICATION

One key factor of maintaining a successful relationship is communication, it is of great importance for couples to maintain a healthy communication relationship. Whereby they can sit down and discuss issues relating to their relationship without upsetting each other, only that way they keep a stead relationship. Effective communication means both of you working out problem together. In some situation, you can be able to look at your spouse and say " you are right and I am wrong" when you get to that level where you can accept your mistake without shifting blames and honestly admitting the need for change then you are on your way to great relationship.

Even if lasting relationships is becoming rare, you can experience a fun and fulfilling relationship, if can take responsibility and bridge the communication gap between you and your spouse.

By Mikel Jackson

How to Deal With Your Husband's Mistress By Katie Lersch

Of all of the emails that I get from wives struggling to deal with their husband's affair, topics about dealing with or confronting the mistress are perhaps the most common. Women want to know if they should attempt to find out who this woman is, if they should confront her, if they should talk to her when she keeps calling, or if they can believe anything that she says or does. Many also want to know the best way to get revenge on her. Some even want to appeal to her sense of decency, hoping to convince her to leave the husband alone. (Hint: she's already shown that she doesn't have any decency. Negotiating with her is a waste of time.) In the following article, I'll tell you what I often tell my reader's about a husband's mistress.

Why Having Anything To Do With Your Husband's Mistress Almost Always Turns Out Bad: Almost without fail, the wives who report back about their interactions with the other woman are completely unsatisfied with how things went down. Most of the time, meeting with her brings about more questions than answers. It actually just makes you feel worse and more frustrated. A lot of the time, she will paint the husband as the one who initiated the whole thing, while she is the innocent one. She will give you the version of the story which paints her in the most flattering light. However, this version is often just not accurate.

Sometimes, wives want to see what she looks like, only to discover that she's not at all what you imagined. This just makes processing all of this more impossible. Because, the only one who can define why your husband carried on with her and what your husband saw in her is your husband himself. Most times, wives are looking for this information from the wrong person. The mistress knows nothing about your life or your objections. In truth, she is and should remain a stranger to you. By allowing her into your life, you're giving her WAY too much power over you.

Whether You Want To Save Your Marriage Or Not, You Should Not Allow The Mistress Into Your Life: If you want to save your marriage, you want to get this woman out of your life immediately, not allow her into it. Your best case scenario is to banish her altogether and completely. You don't want for you or your husband to think about her or to interact with her. And, this is the opposite of what she wants. In order for her to be successful, she needs to position herself in your world. She needs to get a strong hold on your husband and your life. Fight her every inch of the way here if you want to save your marriage. Communicating with her, confronting her, or seeking revenge are all ways of giving her an "in." Resist this at all costs.

If you are going to walk away from the marriage, you still want to steer clear of her. Why? Because even if you know that they deserve each other, you can't have the constant reminder of the pain and betrayal. You want to allow yourself to heal and she is not part of that equation. Your healing is going to depend on your ability to put this behind you. You can't do that if you're constantly in touch with her or having to deal with her. Shut the door on her immediately, Slam it right in her face. She doesn't deserve to ease her conscience or to satisfy her curiosity about what's going on with you.

When You Win And She Looses: What the mistress doesn't want is for you to remain whole. Even if she didn't initially set out to hurt anyone, she knew that her actions were going to have consequences. Yet, she moved forward anyway. She has drawn a line in the sand. Some wives will tell me: "well, she's won. She's got my husband. I'm the odd man out." This makes when cringe when I hear this. Because really, the only way that she wins is if you let her. If you want your husband away from her, take him back. If they deserve each other, great, let them go. But, respect and love yourself enough to rise above this. Don't allow her to continue to hurt and weaken you.

In truth, you emerge the winner when you don't allow this to beat you. Statistically, most men who cheat come back to their wives or at least eventually end the affair. Your husband will see her as a mistake eventually. And, when he does, she's going to be a lot more desolate if she's wallowing in her own misery all alone - with out your husband and without you bearing witness. What she doesn't want is your happiness. Make absolutely sure that you have that, whether you end up with your husband or not. Then, you've won and she's lost. All she has is regret and loneliness because both you and your husband have moved on and have left her in the dust.

By Katie Lersch