Cheaters and liars stink! They ruin lives and are the most selfish people on the face of the earth. But whatever the case, you definitely came to the right place to finally get the truth once and for all! You see, there are a few psychological tactics you can use to easily make your partner tell you the truth, without he/she even realizing it!
Here is how you can catch a lie and bust a cheater once and for all...
Just ask your partner, that is all you have to do, and then watch the response. Yes, it is really that easy; however your questions should always be direct. If you stick to questions that have these in them "who, what, where, when, why and how", then you will be sure to get a response every single time.
Ask your partner things like:
"Who were you with all this time?" ===> "What were you doing till I came home?"===> "who is that calling you so late?" ===> "Can I know why you never tell me about this thing?"...
Look for the ever so famous responses that a liar will give, such as:
Being critical of you- He/she will turn the blame and guilt on you, by saying "don't you trust me", "how could you say that" etc. Then you feel bad and never ask again, but take this as a trick that cheaters and liars use to stop you from bothering them.
Acting highly defensive- The instant you use these questions, if your partner really was guilty of lying or sneaking around behind your back, then he/she would get very defensive. Guilt always causes someone to immediately act defensive.
Ignoring the topic altogether- When you are with someone, there is no need for excessive secrets. If your partner wanted to keep secrets in the first place, why are they with you? Therefore any time you notice him/her not even answering, ignoring you and the subject, then he/she obviously has something to hide and is trying not to be caught.
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