How to win an ex back? It's hard to think clearly after a break-up. Sobriety and common sense are often replaced by uncontrollable emotions and overwhelming instincts. The pain of the heartbreak can often cloud your good judgment of the situation and you can find yourself making million humiliating and immature mistakes that simply minimize your changes of make-up success. Here's a list of mistakes that have to be avoided at any cost if you want your ex back
1 Do not set the communication lines on fire-do not call, text, e-mail excessively. Let your ex breathe!
2 Do not send flowers, "I miss you" and "I'm sorry" cards, gifts. More than likely they are not wanted right now.
3 Do not bug your mutual friends for more information about your ex, respect his/her privacy
4 Do not try to meet them "accidentally" at work, typical "hang-outs" and worse their home
5 Do not stalk. It's not only repelling. It's illegal
6 Do not threaten your ex with suicide or any extreme measures. You don't want your ex back because he/she feels sorry for you
7 Do not act angry. "Pick up your stuff by Monday, or I'll throw it away " is not the right approach if you want them back
8 Do not blame your ex for the failure of the relationship. "You didn't spend enough time with me", "You didn't want to compromise","You didn't..." is not going to help. It only works against your best interest
9 Do not jump on the first "rebound" partner just to prove that there is plenty of fish in the sea. It's not going to assuage your emotional pain. And it's not going to improve the situation with your ex.
10 Do not beg for a second chance. Nobody needs the needy. The only message your ex will get out of this is "I'm desperate, miserable and lonely". And trust me this will not make you look more appealing .
11 Do not drink and dial. It doesn't get much more humiliating than this.
If you have done any of the above mentioned mistakes, you have highly minimized your chances of winning your ex back. Minimal chance however doesn't mean impossible. Step back, take a deep breath. Get a grip on your emotions and come up with a plan.
The answer to the question " How to win an ex back " is simple -use your head, not your heart, do the right things at the right time and the positive results will follow.
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