HOME::Relationships/Commitment X How to Make a Guy Commit - What You Need to Do to Win His Heart By Tina L. Jones

So do you really think that you know what it takes to make a guy commit to you? Are you tired of short-lived relationships that never turn into the real deal? Are you letting intimidation stop you from going after the relationship you want with the guy you love? Basically, every woman will face a point in her life in which she can answer yes to those questions. Luckily, you don't have to force someone into doing something against their will in order to make a guy commit to you. Read on to learn how to help him naturally come around.

Be assertive

You can learn to be assertive without coming off as overly aggressive. The difference is that an assertive woman knows how to give her guy that little push towards what he is already thinking, while an aggressive woman might push him too far too fast. Guys aren't as gung-ho on settling down with that special someone as women are. It is not that men don't want security or that all guys hate the idea of monogamy at all. It is just that society expects them to want to play the field for longer.

If you let him know that you will be there for him no matter what, he will begin to see you as someone that he'd like having around long term. So instead of worrying about pressuring him into putting a ring on your finger, focus your energy on getting to know his personality. Be in touch with the people and the things that he loves. This is a great way to be assertive and make a guy commit.

Be positive

Don't sit around waiting for him to call you every night and then blow up his phone when he doesn't call you. You cannot criticize and complain someone into wanting to be with you. The more you whine about it, the less he will want to spend time with you.

Instead, be positive when you are talking to him or spending time with him. Instead of associating you with nagging, he will associate you with the happy feelings that he has when you are around. Do fun things together that involve both of your interests. You will make him commit to you without even feeling as if you are trying.

By Tina L. Jones