Signs That Your Marriage is Falling Apart By Joe Daley

When you take a survey among the middle aged people around the world, asking them what the most irking question in their life is, right now, you would be quite surprised to know the answer. Seventy percent of the adults suffer from the problem of mistrust and almost ninety nine percent of the time, their mistrust is on their spouse.

So one is forced to ask the following question,

"How do I trust my husband or wife?" and "What should I do know if he or she is deviating from the relationship?"

Definitely, hiring a detective and shadowing your spouse is not always the best option. In some cases it could worsen the situation .There are some things one could observe about their spouse to get an idea about whether they are seeing someone else.

One other common issue would be a difference in bedroom activities. Your spouse might show a different attitude in sex and may show increased or decreased sexual interest.

Suppose if you can smell a new perfume on your spouse (not their usual perfume) when they return home, from work or from a so called casual day out it could be taken as an indication or assurance of he or she is seeing someone.

Communication plays an important role. There might be a change in their communication style. He or she might attend or call someone when you are not around. They might feel anxious when you are around during a call and see you as a hindrance.

Their expenses will be more when they have an external relationship with someone. There may be an increased case of your spouse wanting to go on trips. If you check their credit or debit cards bills you would come to know about quite a few things. So try to keep in touch with the personal expenses of your spouse.

There may be a change in their behavior. Their nature may be soft but now they would have started to argue more or they might stop listening to you. He or she might always get into a fight with you which may be against their nature.

There will be a lot of changes in their routine schedule. They might go out always on some trips under the guise of men only hangout. They might choose to stay away for longer periods of time. The reasons would not always be acceptable.

May be your partner is one who cares less about their looks but now they would have start to care more about their looks, body shapes, hair colors, etc. Most of their time would be spent in beauty parlors or gym to maintain their shape and looks. They might also choose new fashionable attires and accessories. This is one observation you can make quite easily.

There might be some marks like nail scratching or biting in your spouse's body. This could be observed if you watch them from close ranges when they are changing. If you ask them about that there would be an irrelevant or a not so believable explanation.

They might restrict you from their personal things such as reading their cell phone messages or call logs or e mails. They will change their password if it's already known to you. They may even prohibit you from reading their personal diary. All these might ensure that they are losing interest in the relationship.

The best sign is that they would be unable to see you in the eyes, when they speak. Avoidance of eye contact in answering critical questions could be the final nail in the coffin.

These observations made collectively could aid one in assessing the psychological state of your spouse to a great extent.

By Joe Daley