Many couples mutually agree to split up then subsequently one of the partners realizes that they are still in love with their ex. This is quite a common occurrence and often a very tricky dilemma. It could be that your ex feels the same way too.
During a fight, argument, or squabble over something your ex may have said that they are no longer in love with you, and while that could be true it could also be heat of the moment stuff where they have just let their emotions get the better of them.
If you are still sincerely in love your ex, there is always the possibility that your ex may still have feelings for you, but that alone does not indicate that it would be a great move to get back together again.
Remember you split up by mutual consent so there were definite underlying reasons for the break up. Maybe the relationship was going nowhere or a partner had become abusive or was slipping into alcohol or drug problems, if this was the case then you are undoubtedly better off making a new life for yourself. In time it could be that you will look back on the split as being a good thing and something that you needed to do
However if the break-up was by mutual consent and you are now experiencing difficult emotions because you are sure that you are still in love then it is even more important that you reflect on the reasons why you agreed to split up.
If after a period of reflection you are sure you want to rekindle the relationship do not kid yourself that it will be an easy thing to achieve. The grounds for the split up have not gone away. Would getting back together change anything?
In the future how will you prevent those old problems from recurring again, and causing the same outcome.
It could be that you restart your relationship with your ex partner only to find that after a short while nothing has really changed and you have made a terrible mistake. Then what are you going to do?
Before you do anything else go visit my blog and watch the videos they are a good place to start when you want your ex partner back.
I'll take you by the hand and show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex back in your arms! The most remarkable thing that I found following the end of my relationship was that there is a strategy that is easy to follow and proven to work for hundreds of couples who have used it previously.
This system is proven to work time and time again. It is actually much easier to speak to real people who have been there and done that, than to a pay a specialist to give you canned information about making relationships work. Instead, it would be good for you to talk to people who have been there and survived the process of learning to win your ex back.
You MUST try to eliminate the things that caused the problems, the stress, and hurt feelings the first time around, then you will be on a much surer footing than before. You are now taking the same steps that I took when I lost the love of my life. I was lucky enough to discover the maker of that video, someone who is a specialist on relationship counseling and psychology an expert called T 'Dub' Jackson.
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